Chris Noth, Peloton, and Believing Women

Hello.

 

If you have not heard the Peloton/Chris Noth/SATC Reboot/Ryan Reynolds news, please be aware that I’m about to provide spoilers and I’m also going to talk about sexual assault.

 

First the eff of all,

Chris Noth was killed off in Episode 1 of the Sex and The City Reboot. The SATC Reboot is so bad I literally forget what it’s called and I’m not even going to look it up to tell you. Just know Mr. Big died on a Peloton. Naturally, the brand was livid.

Mere days after the episode aired, Maximum Effort aka RYAN REYNOLDS aka White Man With Extremely Good Looks, Wealth, and Connections (RR new name: WMWEGLWC) reached out to Noth, shot the spot in record time, and got it live. And that’s all well and good, congrats to a celebrity for doing what they do best - make shit - but maybe Reynolds should have dug a little deeper and for that matter, maybe the creators of SATC should have dug a little deeper.

CHRIS NOTH X PELOTON

While I am writing this with my typical ‘tude, there are 2 things that can be true while still understanding the problematic nature surrounding this spot, and the SATC reboot.

First:

It was an excellent rebuttal to a cultural moment and Peloton capitalized on a negative branded moment with a positive spin.

Second:

Ryan Reynolds, Maximum Effort, and Peloton cannot be held responsible for the harmful actions of another man if they were not aware of the situation. This is where I am asking you to take pause - “if they were not aware of the situation.”

I am at an utter loss as to why Chris Noth is even a human we are discussing in 2021 when he was accused of these allegations types of allegations in 1995. I repeat - no one listened. Peloton did the right thing and dropped the ad. But had anyone taken the 1995 allegations as seriously as we take sexual assault allegations in 2021, Mr. Big would likely still be a character in the show that we each hold a precious opinion about…but he would look a whole lot different. As in, a different person different.

Carrie whacking Mr. Big over the head with a bouquet

I bring this topic up today because it’s not just a headline.

It is a massive cultural and societal shift. Our response to intolerable behavior as a society and our shift to hold people accountable for this intolerable behavior is reflected in how cultural trends are shaped. SATC is a massive, behemoth part of culture for many millennial people.

If you say “Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte” pretty much everyone at your dinner party knows what you’re talking about (if not, you need Bumble BFF). If you say “Mr. Big” most people can picture a tall brooding man with dark hair and a big nose who royally screwed Carrie over many times throughout the series. I can crystal clear picture a hysterical Carrie whacking Mr. Big over the head with a bouquet in the middle of a crowded NYC street. YOU KNOW THE SCENE. The first season of SATC aired in 1998, three years after Beverly Johnson came forward and said “this man hurt me.” No one listened. And thus, this man continued to be provided with a platform. He landed a huge show that arguably changed the trajectory of his career, and his life. We knew him as a particular character. We accepted him as part of culture, a culture that we curate and are precious about.

Today, in 2021, we listen. We have a far different reaction when people come forward about their sexual assaults. And we hold those that perpetrated these acts responsible for their behavior- that means they are no longer given a platform, our perceptions of them shift, and we no longer support their celebrity or their presence in our own curated cultural worlds of joy and safety.

I am not ignorant, I recognize that doesn’t always happen. Cancel culture is a strange, dangerous game. People fight against it, they rail against those who come forward, who speak their truth, and oftentimes victims of sexual assault are villainized, accused of being liars. But cancel culture exists because people are tired of those with a platform, who can speak their voice freely and with little consequence continuing to get away with being a dangerous person with a following of impressionable people.

We don’t have time to go into the origins of cancel culture today and I really need to land this plane. So consider this as you head into the weekend - did you once vote with your friends Aidan vs. Mr. Big? Who would you choose now, knowing what you know?

At the release of this edition of ATH, 3 women have come forward with allegations against Chris Noth.

Thank you for reading, and now, enjoy the show…

HERE WE GO:

Sometimes I write these and I get to the end and I just sit there in an agitated state of anxiety hoping I didn’t miss anything but my 2022 goal (I do not do resolutions) is to just… accept that I cannot cover it all. ILOVEYOUSOMUCHBYE!!